Just to repost both diagrams close to each other for comparison:
First mistake you made was failing to unplug your battery before doing this. Whenever you do
anything electrical, you unplug your juice - otherwise that's what happens - I made sure to explain this to everyone on the first page before even beginning.
On your diagram Drey - where did you get the color scheme for the OEM switch side of the wires? Forget about those. The reason the colors are different is probably because you used that
cruise control pigtail, and it's not made for that. Why didn't you use my method of connectors and make your own harness? You're mostly on your own I think.. trial and error.
I'll tell you this though:
Black goes to black for sure (top pin on switch)
Red goes to red for sure (bottom pin on switch)
You have two more wires to play with besides that (4 total). Use trial and error, there's only 4 possible combinations which could work from there - remember one of the wires needs to be spliced into its neighbor, see original diagram.