Since you asked, I'm going to give you my honest opinion along with some suggestions... Take them as you will.
I can deal with the neons so long as you hide the tubes and make it a clean install. I had them on my last car so it's not like I think they're ricey.
As far as the chrome projectors go, those just look tacky on pretty much any car. Have you seen what our stock headlights look like when you clean them up, take them apart, and "blackhouse" the insides look like? They look great! Much cleaner look than pretty much any aftermarket housings.
Chrome rims are rarely pulled off with Hondas, but I have seen it done, so good luck.. just pick something in the 18" variance with a clean spoke set-up. Nothing over the top is going to look all that great on these cars.
And the lambo doors is the one thing I just 100% can't stand. I can see why people like them though so if that's the scene you're in or the look you want, go for it. It's your money and car, not mine.
Good luck with it man! Just be sure to enjoy the car and take care of it.