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Old 08-03-2013, 04:23 PM
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Originally Posted by SykVSyx View Post
Just goes to show that what is shared on a Forum is only but a peephole as to what can be going on in people's lives.

Sorry to hear, Muhib. I hope it was something that you both felt was the right thing to do, after trying everything to make it work.
Yea, unfortunately it was inevitable.

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Sorry to hear Man. I know it sucks right now. But it'll get better with every day that passes.
It is getting better every day.

Originally Posted by H-town_Ryda_06 View Post
Damn man, that sucks.. sorry to hear it but I will say that ur on the right path by keeping busy and dont dwell on negativity. Best of luck to you..

ps. There are lots of titles worse than "divorced"
I just hope "divorced" title does not drive away potential woman in future.

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Lawyer up.
Delete from Facebook.
Hit the gym.

Been there, done that. Saying, "my ex-wife" or "I used to be married" or even the title of Divorced, is tough. Hang in there bud. Things will get better. Do your best to stay strong, keep your head up and focused on the future, and most of all spend this time doing YOU.
Dont need a lawyer for now, cuz it is uncontested and quick divorce. She deleted me from fb already. Been going to gym 3/4 times a week even with fasting (Ramadan). Now hurt my lower back, so taking bed rest

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Dont be too sad dude..
haha that wud be sweet!

Originally Posted by blackcord View Post
hey Muhib, sorry to hear about that. anyway, it is probably best to end now so you can move on with your life instead of dragging on going nowhere.

for me, it will be 20 year next year and i can tell you that there were many good and bad moments. fortunately we were able to survive the bad ones.

all the best, bro.
Thanks, Kelvin. I still remember how we used to meet up with you and other guys at East meet.

Originally Posted by todd_cards View Post
20? holy cow man..
my *** hasnt even been alive for 20 years lol
congrats man!!


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keep your head up man
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Originally Posted by Varnell View Post
You're on the right track. Going to the gym is a much better habit than trying to drink it away. If it helps, think about the high divorce rate these days. All those people have the same struggle, but you seem to already be miles ahead.
Yea it is quite bad that divorce rates are quite high these days.
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muhib? is that pakistani?
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Sorry to hear about your marriage. Stay focused on the positive things you have going and keep it moving.
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muhib? is that pakistani?
nah i am bengali :P

yup, just trying to be positive and focused.
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I got a divorce a month and a half ago. It sucked at first but got better every week. I realized I'm not ready to be married. I'm 26, and was married for 3 years. Things get complacent and I'm not ready to be with one person for the rest of my life. I'm not saying your situation is the same, I am saying it gets better. Think of it this way, we have total control over how our life goes right now. If you want to go through women like Dom goes through his car selections, go ahead, if you want to get closer to God, you can. Your life is in your hands right now. I lost 15 pounds that first week and it sucked... But, now... It sucks less. Don't let the title shame you either. Sometimes it just doesn't work out man and being "divorced" is sometimes the result. I hope you tried to work through your problems but in many cases that's putting a band aide on a broken wrist. Anyways... /rant

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Sorry to hear man. This is just one of those things in life that you have to trudge through, and fight it day by day. It is difficult, but hopefully you have good friends and family for support. It will take time to feel like yourself again, but it will happen, and you will find happiness again. If nothing else, eventually you will just become mentally exhausted of feeling upset, and that alone will help you move on with your life.
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Originally Posted by LeBirdNest View Post
I got a divorce a month and a half ago. It sucked at first but got better every week. I realized I'm not ready to be married. I'm 26, and was married for 3 years. Things get complacent and I'm not ready to be with one person for the rest of my life. I'm not saying your situation is the same, I am saying it gets better. Think of it this way, we have total control over how our life goes right now. If you want to go through women like Dom goes through his car selections, go ahead, if you want to get closer to God, you can. Your life is in your hands right now. I lost 15 pounds that first week and it sucked... But, now... It sucks less. Don't let the title shame you either. Sometimes it just doesn't work out man and being "divorced" is sometimes the result. I hope you tried to work through your problems but in many cases that's putting a band aide on a broken wrist. Anyways... /rant

It gets better.
Same thing with me, I got married when I was too young (just little shy of becoming 25). I lost weight too but I am starting to feel a lot better every day. I like the fact that I have all the time to myself now

I actually tried to fix the problems but it did not work. As soon I get the papers, I will sign them and start a new life.

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Sorry to hear man. This is just one of those things in life that you have to trudge through, and fight it day by day. It is difficult, but hopefully you have good friends and family for support. It will take time to feel like yourself again, but it will happen, and you will find happiness again. If nothing else, eventually you will just become mentally exhausted of feeling upset, and that alone will help you move on with your life.
Yea Chris, my friends and family are being supportive at this critical time. Lets see what life has in store for me in future.
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Dont think I am ever getting married again...

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