Okay, i wired up the maps today... turned out a little different than expected.
This may be a little winded but I'll try to be as descriptive as possible, stay with me here. My phone was dead so I didn't get any pics :/ Sorry guys.
**Keep in mind. I wanted to keep from cutting ANY of the stock wiring
Disclaimer: I am not responsible for any damage you cause to your car by following this information.
Map Lights: There are only two pins on the map light that plug into the harness, so no tapping into the empty slot to add a second ground to the connector as some have suggested.
Testing options: I took a wire and back probed the dome connector ground wire and also back probed the ground for the map lights (basically connecting both ground wires together). As I had expected, this did nothing. This is because the ground circuit for the map light is controlled before the connector by the map light switches. It is pointless to add a second ground after the switch, duh. It needs to be before the switch!
Dome Light:
The dome light connector also has two wires, one for 12V and the other is for the open door signal (switched ground) there is a separate direct ground that uses one of the dome light mounting bolts for the "ON" part of the switch. Moving on.
This part may be a little hard to imagine without knowing what it looks like, try to imagine it:
I tried to touch part of the map light PCB, there is exposed circuitry directly where the twist type bulb sockets install. Touching the ground to these exposed metal did turn on the lights individually. So I came up with this idea...
I untwisted the "194" sockets and took a short piece of wire and wedged the stripped ends under the light sockets to make a connection. Basically I connected the two map lights together with a wire using the sockets for the bulbs to pinch/secure the wire. I then tapped into the dome (switched ground wire) and ran it under the headliner (I pulled the rubber weather stripping off the sunroof and fed it around) and tapped into my makeshift "bridged" map light wire.
Now I know what you're thinking. Jenkey wiring, makeshift circuits and what not. But do not fear. This is all temporary to see if I like how the new wiring controls the lights now. If I don't mind how they operate I will solder directly to the PCB and make a more permanant solution out of it. I had wired them up temporarily to test how everything works before I start soldering... Continuing on.
New wiring effects. Here is what this method did to the operation of the lights vs stock:
The good - When I open the door the map lights come on with the dome light and also fade out just as the dome light does, Sweet!
The different - With the dome control circuit and both map lights wired together, via the jenky wire bridge. Either of the map light buttons will turn on both the map lights AND the dome light because everything is now bridged to the same circuit (a diode could solve the dome light being controlled by either the map button). This is why I didn't solder, I have to see if I'm okay with this before I make it permanent. However, if you have the dome light in the off position, the map lights will still operate with the doors. So with this setup the map lights will ALWAYS come on with an open door unless a switch is added and hidden somewhere(possible solution).
Once I am through with my testing I will either look into a different wiring setup or make this one permanent with soldering. I will then take pics and possibly put together a DIY for those interested.
Give me some feed back, I know you all have some...