me and my gf are both chefs so i hate to seem biased but its not about the wine its about the food, lol. All wines can be great, Reds, whites, blushes, sparkling, french, itanian, californi.....an?(is that a word?). you cant say a merlot is better than a white zinfindel but you could say that it would go much better with say, a red meat while the zin would be better with a fish. You should always enjoy wine with food even if its just a snack of some food that you eat casually like burgers or hamburger helper(seriously). To say that the female species enjoys a certain wine more than the male is kinda silly cause even if 2 out of 3 women enjoy white more than red your still gonna want to not look foolish in front of any of them. If you pair all wines up with the right foods (or vise versa) your always gonna please your special lady friend. Wines are a science you cant casually master them so the best thing to do is go out and buy a bottle of each and grab alot of food. Get some yellow tail, its not horrible but its nothing fantastic however there cheap and can be found anywhere, since its the same producer it will give you a control to try each type of wine and see how they differ from each other. Dont try and figure out which you "like" and which you dont. So if you really wanna impress a girl ask her what kind of food she likes and then go impress her by matching the right wine to it.