Accord 2000 2 ex (ul leather) 5
accord 2000 2 ex (ul)
accord 2000 2 lx (ul)
accord 2001 2 ex (ul
accord 2001 2 ex (ul)
accord 2001 2 lx (ul side srs)
accord 2001 2 lx (ul)
accord 2002 2 ex (ul
accord 2002 2 ex (ul)
accord 2002 2 lx (ul side srs)
accord 2002 2 lx (ul)
accord 2001 4 ex-ul
accord 2001 4 exl-ul (leather)
accord 2001 4 lx (ul side srs)
accord 2001 4 lx (ul)
accord 2002 4 ex (ul leather)
accord 2002 4 ex (ul)
accord 2002 4 lx (ul side srs)
accord 2002 4 lx (ul)
All of those share the same ECU. Did you actually check these places or just go "eh it doesn't have the same part #" cuz a lot of them have bad information and may give a wrong listing. Worst case, you copy the VIN from a few and call your local dealer to look up what the factory ECU for that car is.
You'll honestly have better luck finding a 5spd 4dr LX (UL) it's a pretty common bare needs work vehicle.