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Discussion in 'Life Lessons' started by blacknight, Sep 16, 2013.

Could you date someone who has a "Best Friend" of the opposite sex

  1. yes

    45.8%
  2. no

    54.2%
  1. blacknight

    blacknight Superman, uh mod

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    How do you handle/maintain a relationship with someone who has a "Best Friend" of the opposite sex?

    A friend of mine asked me saying he was getting serious with a girl, but she has a male best friend.
    According to her, they (her & the best friend) have only kissed a few years ago, but nothing more.
    Personally, I told him I couldnt be with a woman who has a guy as a best friend.
    Just too many "What If's" and too many possibilities...

    What does everyone here think...
     
  2. kn0x47

    kn0x47 Senior Member

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    date her only if he just wants someone to date, not get serious with.

    I used to have a female best friend. we always liked each other and she ended up cheating on a guy she was dating with me right before we got together

    Any guy that is bf with a girl, wants her. as soon as she's not happy in a relationship he'll try to make a move
     
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  3. RedRyder

    RedRyder Be a better driver

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    I was actually going to say if they're not in a relationship, I don't see a problem pursuing her. But the above post is a good point and I sort of agree with it. Especially if the girl is at all attractive.

    Bitches ain nuthin but ho's and tricks
     
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    puzzlemaster94 6GA Connoisseur

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    That is 100% correct. When I was somewhat good friends with a girl, I wanted her. I'd just ask her straight up about her friend and get her opinion on it.
     
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    This best friend is only a friend because he's in the friend zone.... He defiantly wants her but if she doesn't see that then there's some thing wrong with her.
    I'm not the jealous type but if a girl told me that shit I would be out of there unless she's just a b00ty call. :squintwave:
     
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    if the guy ever had feelings for her, he still does
    it's never a good situation, but it's doable
    there just needs to some type of change in the relationship she has with the close guy friend
    trust will be key

    that being said, I wouldn't do it from personal experience.

    But I'm with RR

    Bitches aint shit but ho's and tricks
     
  7. DarkSideAccord

    DarkSideAccord nadeshiko fobz ftw..

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    they're f*ck buddies... or will be down the road.. or he's getting ready to pounch when he gets the chance
     
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    IMO This isnt so black & white. It really all depends.

    I consider 3 Females I'm friends with as "best friends". Ive had sex with 1 out of the 3.

    With the one I hooked up with, it was an agreed upon FWB senario. Once we started relationships with other people, the sex stopped.

    As for the other two, I would not pursue them to have sex. We're too close and they aren't the types to do a FWB thing.

    Regardless of this though, being a male, its kinda difficult to say you'd NEVER have sex with a female "best" friend because in all seriousness, if shes hot and has the hots for you, chances are youre gonna have sex with her.

    OP, it really all depends on how much you trust this girl youre seeing.
     
  9. Russianred

    Russianred Snail Spools You!

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    Thus, my answer is no. Otherwise they can fine someone else to fuck with.
     
  10. 20-CG5-01

    20-CG5-01 KanomNom

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    It all depends on how long they've known each other, if they ever "talked", or their intentions.

    I know some girls with guy best friends that are homosexual, that I can understand.

    Observe their actions when they have some alcohol in their system, it usually tells the truth about how they feel about each other.

    From personal experience, I don't believe in girls having best friends with straight guys. The majority of the time it's the guy trying to get in those pants.
     

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