I think you're talking about Muir Woods. That's on the other side of the GGB. http://www.visitmuirwoods.com/
I think another tourist place is Coit Tower. I've personally never been there though, so I can't tell you whether or not its worth it. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coit_Tower
Saturday:
enroute to SF..... hearst (sp?) castle, stanford, half moon bay
in SF... Castro
Sunday:
-Alcatraz (maybe)
- Pier 39
- Fisherman's Wharf
- Ghirardelli Square
- Cable car
- Union Square and the mall stated earlier?
- dinner at First Crush or Le Colonial (friend told me they're good)
Monday:
- Golden Gate Bridge
- Palace of Fine Arts (and then walk the beach near it to the base of golden gate bridge)
- Sausolito (sp?)
- dinner at Cote Sud
Tuesday:
- Napa Valley
- UC Berkeley
- maybe Jelly Bean Co tour?
- drive home
^sounds like a good itinerary.
For Monday, you might want to consider taking a ferry (or just drive) to Tiburon from Sausalito if you find that there isn't enough to do in Saus. Just a thought. Tiburon's downtown is pretty touristy also.
You've probably already done your trip but there is a very nice lookout point above the Golden Gate Bridge on the North side. It is simply amazing at on a clear night.
The Exploratorium is pretty interesting too, its just a big science museum, hands on too.
You seem to have covered everything else. Perhaps China Town?