Not trying to be selfish or anything. but I'd much rather we all meet up and go to Bald Hill. Exit 63 on the LIE. $5 to get in per car.
The roads to get to SI (Cross Island, Southern State, Belt) are all really bad for my car. But the roads in Suffolk County are great. And $5 is much cheaper than paying an $11 toll to get into SI and an $8 toll to get back onto into Brooklyn.