lip kits are the way to go, wings west has some nice ones. as far as front bumpers go, the techno r is one of the few body kit bumpers that looks nice, Accord786 has it
get cheap oem replacement bumper on ebay, wings west kit or maybe oem or oem replica lip kit, then paint your whole car after rather than trying to match paint.. haha. the thing is you might end up spending more than you paid for your car to make it look nice, but its worth it!
I had the B-2 kit and I liked the look of it for our cars (not too rice looking) but the quality of the duraflex wasn't as good as I thought so after I paid wayyyy too much to put it on and painted I'm now going back to OEM bumper and lips.
-learn from me lol