Well, the "Keep it as is" is definitley weighing out the panda look! I have the CF hood already, b/c my white hood is gettind dinged up slowly. I may just add the CF eyelids with it and call it a day!
I would just go for the CF hood and maybe trunk. Since you already have the CF hood, putting that on alone would make your car look much better. I wouldn't do the black roof. and yeah as someone else mentioned you should get the rest of your lip kit too.