Simple clean look?
Okay, here's what you do...
-Get a drop! Most important element. A good set of coilovers = WIN.
-Clean 17" or 18" wheels. Chrome is almost always FAIL. rarely works IMO.
-Blackhoused headlights, maybe put together a retro in them.
-Debadge rear emblems other than the H.
-Since you live in TX, I'm gonna say a moderate tint would be good. Don't bother any lower that 20%.
-Clean up your engine bay, bring back some shine to the hoses and just keep it as dirt-free as possible.
-As for beginning performance mods... you can do simple things like a CAI or SRI, catback exhaust (Magnaflow still sounds best for V6 IMO).
-Strut bar and rear sway bar are good subtle suspension upgrades as well.
-You really don't need to touch any aftermarket headlights or anything chrome or anything involving neons to get a nice clean look that ppl will love.
Welcome! and good luck!