ok small update. I did find an eyelett on the right side of the motor by the fuel rail / intake manifold. Put it on, now when key goes to accessory the fuel pump primes with both ecus on its own, doesn't need obd2 tool hooked up. I also noticed, with stock ecu, green security light flashes then goes away, like normal. With jdm p5m, light doesn't show up at all. But both will get to accessory and prime fuel pump, still no cranking. I feel like i'm missing another eyelett though. Isn't there one on the left side by the dizzy or something?